Suki Waterhouse on Motherhood Changing Who She Is: “You Just Become an Unrecognisable Person”

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Suki Waterhouse and Robert Pattinson posing together at the 2026 Vanity Fair Oscar Party at LACMA

Suki Waterhouse was writing Loveland in the months after giving birth when she tried to put a feeling she hadn’t expected into songs: motherhood had changed her sense of who she was.

“I just wanted to get out what was going on at that time because I felt very vulnerable, very raw, very unsure,” the singer and actress, 34, said.

Suki Waterhouse at a public appearance
Suki Waterhouse photographed at a public appearance. Photo by Benjamin Cremel / Getty Images.

She’d expected to return to her old self after having a baby. Instead, she described being humbled by the transformation: “The mother is birthed into an entirely new human, with a new brain, and you just become an unrecognisable person.”

Waterhouse and Robert Pattinson, 40, have a 2-year-old daughter. Now 2 and a half years into motherhood, she’s described a growing confidence in how they’re raising her while managing careers that keep them moving.

"Primetime" Screening - The 83rd Venice International Film Festival
Suki Waterhouse and Robert Pattinson at Sala Grande for the 83rd Venice International Film Festival on September 5, 2026. Photo by Benjamin Cremel / Getty Images.

Their daughter travels on tour with Waterhouse, and the family has been changing rentals every few months. They’ve chosen their bases around being able to stay together, with hopes of settling in 1 place next year.

“It’s quite hard to make something work where you’re both doing these kinds of jobs, when you don’t live in one place and you’re travelling a lot,” Waterhouse said of her relationship with Pattinson, whom she’s been dating since 2018.

Of parenting together, she said: “I feel good about how we’re doing it and we are both just so connected to her. She’s such a wonderful, happy girl.”

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"Primetime" Screening - The 83rd Venice International Film Festival
Suki Waterhouse and Robert Pattinson at Sala Grande for the 83rd Venice International Film Festival on September 5, 2026. Photo by Benjamin Cremel / Getty Images.
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Suki Waterhouse, in a sheer-bodice white gown with a dramatic cape train, and Robert Pattinson in a black velvet tuxedo pose together at the 2026 Vanity Fair Oscar Party at LACMA on March 15, 2026. Photo by Amy Sussman / Getty Images for Vanity Fair.
Robert Pattinson and Suki Waterhouse seen arriving at the Viper Room in West Hollywood, CA
Wearing a black satin blouse, tailored blazer, and face mask, Suki Waterhouse strides through a parking area outside the Viper Room in West Hollywood on May 25, 2022. Photo by MEGA.
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Robert Pattinson, masked and in a black blazer over a gingham shirt, exits 8222 Marmont Lane after an A-list Halloween party in West Hollywood on October 31, 2021, with Suki Waterhouse partially visible behind him. Photo by MEGA.
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